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Bending Sensitive · Phase 1 · Calm

Session 10

Week 2 · Day 5 · Full session · 9 exercises

Before you start

Red Flags: When to Stop and Seek Medical Care

Most back pain is manageable with the right approach. But there are specific symptoms that require immediate medical attention. These are non-negotiable. If you experience any of the following, see a doctor:

• New bladder or bowel problems (difficulty controlling either) • Numbness around the saddle/groin area • Rapidly worsening leg weakness • Unexplained fever, chills, or weight loss • Severe pain after a significant trauma • Feeling physically unsafe

These are rare, but they're serious. Everything else in this program assumes that red flags are not present. If any of these show up at any point, pause the program and get in-person care.

Every session has a “Does this hurt?” button. Tap it if something doesn’t feel right.

This educational content does not constitute medical advice. For diagnosis or treatment, please consult a clinician.

Walking: 12-15 min

Also walk on rest days at the same duration

Today’s exercises

Some soreness during exercise is normal. Sharp, escalating pain is not.

  1. Bench / countertop decompression lean

    Exercise 1

    Bench / countertop decompression lean

    30-60s holds, as needed
    How to do it
    1. 1Stand facing a sturdy bench, table, or countertop that is around hip height.
    2. 2Place your hands or forearms on the surface, then offload your weight onto the supporting surface. I find that it helps to turn my palms facing forward and not let my shoulders shrug.
    3. 3Let your knees soften slightly and allow your arms to support some of your bodyweight. If you're able to and have a stable surface, you may fully offload your weight onto the surface.
    4. 4Breathe slowly and feel your low back gently unload; hold for the prescribed time, then slowly walk your feet back in and stand up tall.

    Why this exercise

    This is your 'reset button.' It gives your back a break from compression and can calm things down after sitting, standing, or a long walk. It's not magic - just smart load management to partially offload compression for temporary relief.

  2. Prone tummy lying (relaxed)

    Exercise 2

    Prone tummy lying (relaxed)

    ~3 min

    Especially beneficial: gently extends the spine. Gentle press-ups (small range, hips stay down) may also feel good

    How to do it
    1. 1Lie on your stomach on a firm but comfortable surface, such as a mat or bed.
    2. 2Position a small pillow or folded towel under your hips or chest if that makes the position more comfortable. This helps me a lot as I'm sensitive to extension.
    3. 3Let your legs relax and rest your head in a comfortable position, either turned to one side or supported on your hands.
    4. 4If you're able to, gently begin lifting your head and chest to enter slight extension by resting on your elbow or through the use of a pillow.
    5. 5Breathe slowly into your belly and allow your back and hips to relax, staying in this position for the prescribed time as long as symptoms remain tolerable.

    Why this exercise

    For some people (especially when bending forward aggravates symptoms), gentle extension-biased positions can calm things down. This is the lowest-intensity "try it and see" version. The concept is simple: if forward bending elicits pain, then lying on your tummy passively shifts your nucleus pulposus of your discs anteriorly, giving relief to the posterior structures that may have been compressed by the nucleus. Going into extension further exaggerates this and can provide additional relief to some.

    Make it easier

    • Pillow under hips/chest
    • Shorter time

    Make it harder

    • Gradually reduce pillow height
    • Move to elbows (small extension) if tolerated
  3. Standing hamstring stretch

    Exercise 3

    Standing hamstring stretch

    1 × 20-30s/side

    Foot on a low step, tall/neutral spine. No seated hamstring (too much spinal flexion)

    How to do it
    1. 1Stand facing a low step or sturdy support and place one heel on it with the knee straight or slightly soft.
    2. 2Keep your chest up and a gentle arch in your low back, then hinge forward slightly from your hips.
    3. 3Lean until you feel a comfortable stretch along the back of your thigh, avoiding bouncing or forcing the position.
    4. 4Hold for the prescribed time while breathing, then return to standing and repeat on the other leg.

    Why this exercise

    Think of the standing variant as a mobility-friendly version of the seated stretch. Same goal, but easier to get into and easier to keep a neutral spine, and you can do it quickly on almost any raised surface.

    Make it easier

    • Lower the height of the support
    • Softer knee (slight knee bend)
    • Shorter holds

    Make it harder

    • Slightly higher support
    • Longer holds
    • Add a gentle hip hinge (not rounding) to target the hamstrings, not your discs
  4. Figure-4/piriformis stretch

    Exercise 4

    Figure-4/piriformis stretch

    1 × 20-30s/side

    Performed supine to prevent spinal flexion

    How to do it
    1. 1Sit on a chair or lie on your back with both knees bent.
    2. 2Cross one ankle over the opposite knee so your leg forms a "figure-4" shape.
    3. 3Gently lean your trunk forward (if sitting) or draw the uncrossed leg toward your chest (if lying down) until you feel a stretch in the buttock and outer hip of the crossed leg.
    4. 4Hold for the prescribed time without bouncing, then relax and repeat on the other side.

    Why this exercise

    This is a personal favourite of mine, and I swear by performing this daily. This is a common stretch recommended to those with sciatica as the piriformis muscle sits right near the sciatic nerve (and for some poor people, the nerve runs right through the piriformis muscle). Stretching this muscle may help with nerve compression. This stretch reduces tension in the piriformis, hip extensors, and external rotators.

    Make it easier

    • Do it lying down on your back (often easier to control)
    • Don't lean your torso into the stretch very much
    • Shorter holds

    Make it harder

    • Slightly deeper stretch over time (lean deeper with torso)
    • Longer holds
  5. Gentle mid-range cat-cow

    Exercise 5

    Gentle mid-range cat-cow

    1 × 6-8 reps

    Stay mid-range. Don't flex far into cat

    How to do it
    1. 1Start on your hands and knees with your hands under your shoulders and knees under your hips.
    2. 2Gently round your back up toward the ceiling (like an angry cat), staying in a comfortable mid-range rather than pushing into strong end-range. Only extend until you feel mild stiffening and then do not pass that range.
    3. 3Then slowly let your back sag slightly toward the floor (cow position), again staying in a mild, comfortable range.
    4. 4Move smoothly between these two positions for the prescribed number of repetitions, keeping your breathing relaxed and easy.
    5. 5Slow and controlled. Do not extend and arch aggressively and do not continue through painful motion.

    Why this exercise

    Motion can be medicine. Mid-range cat-cow helps reduce stiffness and reintroduce comfortable movement without cranking into end-range, which is where a lot of people get into trouble. This gentle exercise is intended to decrease stiffness and liberate motion - not to test how far you can round your back in each direction. In fact, that's the opposite of what we want to do. This exercise should be performed carefully and not immediately after waking up. Performing this exercise to the 'end range' in either flexion or extension can elicit pain for those suffering from back pain.

  6. Seated good morning

    Exercise 6

    Seated good morning

    2 × 8

    Erector anchor: flat-back NEUTRAL hinge from the hips, hands on thighs. Do NOT round the spine. No loaded flexion in the first ~hour after waking

    How to do it
    1. 1Sit tall on a flat bench or the edge of a firm chair with your feet wide apart and knees bent so that your heels are roughly beneath your knees.
    2. 2Breathe in and brace your core.
    3. 3Hinge forward slowly while maintaining your brace and a neutral spine.
    4. 4Fight to keep a straight back and stop the movement when you feel that your back may begin to round.
    5. 5Drive down through your feet and push your hips forward into the bench to return to the starting position.

    Why this exercise

    A seated position increases stability and lets you build confidence with hinging at the hips before you try it standing. The extra stability means 100% of your attention can go to moving through the hips with a locked, neutral spine.

    Make it easier

    • Micro-hinge: lean only as far as stays comfortable, build over time
    • Rest your hands on your thighs to support your torso
    • Drop down a rung of the lever ladder

    Make it harder

    • Climb the lever ladder (longer lever = harder): (1) hands on thighs
    • Arms crossed on your chest
    • Hands behind your head (do not push your chin down)
    • Hug a weighted object to your chest (a book, water jug, or filled bag)
    • Increase the depth of the hinge (back must not round into flexion)
  7. Bodyweight hip hinge (hands on thighs)

    Exercise 7

    Bodyweight hip hinge (hands on thighs)

    2 × 8
    How to do it
    1. 1Stand with your feet about hip-width apart and knees slightly bent.
    2. 2Place your hands lightly on the tops of your thighs and gently brace your core.
    3. 3Push your hips back behind you slowly and slide your hands down your thighs for support. Imagine you are closing a car door with your butt, letting your chest tip forward while keeping your back straight.
    4. 4Stop when you feel a stretch in your hamstrings or if you notice your back beginning to round, then return to standing by driving your hips forward and straightening your legs.

    Why this exercise

    This is a skill drill, not a workout. It teaches you how to bend using hips and legs while keeping your trunk stable - basically the foundation for picking things up without relying on rounding your spine into flexion.

    Make it easier

    • Smaller hinge (hands don't slide far)
    • Practice against a wall (hips tap wall)

    Make it harder

    • Deeper hinge while staying neutral (spine)
    • Remove hand support gradually
    • Hold a light object, once the pattern is automatic
  8. Dead bug

    Exercise 8

    Dead bug

    2 × 3/side × 3-5s hold

    Lower the opposite arm + leg slowly, keep the low back gently flat

    How to do it
    1. 1Lie on your back with your arms reaching straight up toward the ceiling and your hips and knees bent to 90 degrees, so your shins are parallel to the floor.
    2. 2Gently flatten your low back toward the floor and brace your core, holding that contact the whole time.
    3. 3Slowly lower one arm overhead and the opposite leg toward the floor, going only as far as you can while keeping your low back flat.
    4. 4Return to the start with control and repeat on the other side, breathing steadily and moving slowly throughout.

    Why this exercise

    The dead bug trains your core to lock your spine in place while your arms and legs move, without loading your back. It is the anti-arch counterpart to the bird dog.

    Make it easier

    • Move only the legs, or only the arms
    • Shorten the range (lower the limb part-way)
    • Fewer reps

    Make it harder

    • Standard dead bug (lower one arm and the opposite leg, then return)
    • Same movement with a 3-second pause at full extension before returning
    • More reps once your low back stays flat the whole set
  9. Glute bridge (double-leg)

    Exercise 9

    Glute bridge (double-leg)

    2 × 8

    Add once comfortable / non-irritable

    How to do it
    1. 1Lie on your back with both knees bent and feet flat on the floor, about hip-width apart.
    2. 2Gently brace your core and squeeze your glutes, then push through your heels to lift your hips until your body forms a straight line from shoulders to knees.
    3. 3Pause briefly at the top, and then lower your hips back down with control and repeat for the prescribed number of repetitions.
    4. 4If this motion is too easy, then perform with a single leg.

    Why this exercise

    A strong back is best complemented by strong hips and legs. Glute bridges train hip extension, so your lower back can remain stable as your glutes and legs do the heavy lifting.

    Make it easier

    • No pause at the top
    • Bring your feet a bit closer to your bum

    Make it harder

    • Add a 2-3 second pause at the top
    • Single-leg glute bridge
    • Hip thrust
    • Single-leg hip thrust
    • Add resistance by placing a weight on your pelvis

Milestone · Phase 1

That’s workout 10: you finished Calm.

Two weeks of showing up, even on the days it would have been easier not to. Your back has had a proper chance to settle, and you've proven to yourself that gentle movement helps rather than harms. Now we start rebuilding how you move.

Move on to Phase 2

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